I hope during this time the family has the strength and time needed together For we all know how important support is. My deepest sympathies to the entire family, I was looking for when Danielles next book would be available (I have them all except for the poem one) and I ran across this article. Traina's greatest joy was his family. He sounded good. He was always smiling, and happily engaged all of us in any of our conversations. Jos Ropero, I am so sorry for your loss. My husband and I moved to southern California and I never saw John again. Just as when Nick died, you are all in my thoughts and I pray that you find comfort in all those special memories you have of your former husband, fellow parent and dear friend. Marie was a native of Tampa, FL, where she met and married her beloved husband of 56 years, the late John L Traina. The tests came back on December 15th, he had acute leukemia, but even then, he was cheerful and optimistic, which was so characteristic of him. My thoughts are with you and may his wonderful soul rest in peace til you see him again one day. Thank you for sharing all that. Danielle, Later I visited his beautiful vineyard/ranch home in the Napa Valley at Oakville with more photos and was fortunate enough to be there at the same time as his two sons from the marriage to Dede Wilsey, Trevor and Todd Traina. I was only 22 when she passed. She worked as the paper's society columnist from 2000 to 2004, when she wrote about the lifestyles of the rich but not necessarily famous. This memorial website was created in memory of John Traina, 87, born on September 26, 1909 and passed away on February 2, 1997. Traina, John P. Sr. Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church Wednesday, April 3, 2019. John was a man of a thousand interests, always fascinated by a variety of topics. Dear Danielle, I just came across this sad announcement and although I never met John, I could not help myself from sending you and your family my deepest sympathy. Condolences to family and friends.May you gain support and prayers to sustain you at this difficult time.Isaiah 57:15, John Traina is a St. Louis soccer icon who will always remain an idol for an entire generation of players. Jos Ropero, Ms Steel sent a comment in Spanish on the death of John but I see quee google translated something wrong my comment, because I do not know English, but if something is not understood or grounds for confusion, sorry, just wanted to give my condolences and say that John was very good father and husband for their qualities. With Sympathy and Admiration for your Writings! Godbless. He is also survived by a sister, Marisa Traina Hahn, three nephews and a niece. We will remember him forever. I would love to see you write a story of the wonderful relationship and memories of John and your family. Hello Ms. Danielle Steel Love to all . She has also been involved in a number of mental illness treatment activities. [2] Career [ edit] Traina started his first band, Shanker, at age 13 with Max Leavitt. A funeral service is pending. Sincerely, John was Married, with a capital M, and seemed to be a great husband. 6:42 pm, Reshma KellyMay 27, 2013 Although it was about 45 years ago that I was a nanny, I dont think a day has gone by that I didnt think of the boys or pray for their well being. R.I.P John Traina you will be missed by many. Early life [ edit] Train was born on the Upper East Side of Manhattan to Helen Coster Gerard and Arthur Train. John sounded as wonderful as the perfect men in some of your novels Its so nice that you were able to share a life and build a family with such an endearing man. Login or Sign-up to show all important data, death records and obituaries absolutely for free! He was kind to me, and to my sons, Carlo and Edoardo. 11:51 am, Kathy GordonNovember 19, 2018 A big hug with all chastity And for you Danielle may you feel comfort in the good times shared memories and all the treasures that are eternal. thank you for sharing the newspaper cliping with me and all ur readers And in his final month, he was surrounded by that love as his children accompanied him to every cancer treatment. Dearest Danielle , Even after our divorce, my house was always open to him; we spent wonderful times together with the kids. What a beautiful tribute to a lovely man adored by all! His present to us was a lovely crystal bowl which I have always treasured. He attended local schools and graduated from Stanford University before building a career. On the lifestyle front, her duties also including writing about cannabis culture for The Chronicle and its cannabis website, www.GreenState.com website. Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love. My condolences to his entire family. She is the bestselling living author and one of the best-selling fiction author of all time, with over 800 million copies sold. Thank you for sharing your life with him to your readers. I myself just lost my 30 yr old son to brain cancer, but I have his little boy Ian who is 5 who is a miniature of my son. We were not invited to the big reception at the Danelle Steel home that was once Adolph and Alma Sprekels John "Johnny" Walker was born. We both think that your professional life is astounding and your private life is to be admired. We filled our house with love and light, music and laughter, and a lot of kids!!! It was my pleasure to have this time with him. He used drugs, but what wasn't immediately. Beloved father and grandfather, notable society figure, entrepreneur, civic leader and San Francisco. Mary & Family:). John Traina, in 1985 . 4:08 pm, Joan Bell DakinSeptember 6, 2012 Funeral services will be held privately. Its amazing how often I think of him. [1] Traina died by suicide by overdosing on lithium at the age of 19. I made life-long friends there, and my first husband, Capt. The first time we skyped he looked great, the second time less so. Traina was married for many years each to Fine Arts Museums' board President Dede Wilsey and best-selling author Danielle Steel. "When I met John, I was an insignificant, boring young woman who only knew guys my own age who jerked me around. Kind, elegant, unforgettable, Our sincerest condolences to the entire Traina family. Together they had Samantha, Victoria, Vanessa, Maxx and Zara. collector, socialite - dies, Todd Traina (left), Katie Traina and John Traina, Horoscope for Friday, 3/03/23 by Christopher Renstrom, No seriously, dont drive up to Tahoe this weekend, Wife of Jeffrey Vandergrift issues somber update, Snowboarder dies at Tahoe ski resort following historic blizzard, Scream publicity stunt floods Bay Area dispatch with 911 calls, The Warriors broke Russell Westbrook, just like old times, Rain reenters Bay Area forecast: Have an umbrella near you, Mochi muffin bakery closes SF cafe after just 4 months, The best fried chicken is at a San Francisco strip club, Oakland ransomware attackers leak 'confidential' data, Horoscope for Saturday, 3/04/23 by Christopher Renstrom. With Wilsey, he was father to Trevor and Todd Traina and grandfather to Daisy, Johnny and Delphina. Mr. Traina was well-loved for his elan, his conversation and the ease at which he put people in social gatherings. John Traina is a member of famous Spouse list. In addition to his extensive cache of Faberg cigarette cases, Traina adored historic vehicles, from his collection of early 20th century wagons lining the tree-canopied drive of his beloved, 24-acre Oakville vineyard, to an antique fire truck often parked in the drive of Traina's last home, an 1893 Pacific Heights firehouse once owned by Gov. Mansion on Washing St.,which you can see in the Frank Sinatra movie,Pal Joey 1957 (DVD 2005). My deepest sympathy to everyone. (Juan 5:28,29) He would have hated to be diminished, old and sick. Its so hard to lose a child, I know what you went through losing your son. They got divorced in 1978, but their relationship inspired Steele to write Now & Forever and Passions Promise. What a warm, kind and loving man. Genealogy for John Traina (c.1919 - d.) family tree on Geni, with over 240 million profiles of ancestors and living relatives. Recuerde que Dios es un dios de vivos y no de muertos porque para el todos viven en su memoria hasta el da de la resurreccin. The children numbered nine, but the reason Steel is now agreeing to an interview is that her son Nicholas Traina died a suicide in 1997 at age 19. I always enjoyed her dedications to him in her books, and the obvious love they shared. Catherine left The Chronicle in 2007 but continues to write features for the paper and a twice-weekly society column. 6:07 pm, Elena CaputoOctober 23, 2021 The thing I loved best about John is he was a straight shooter and good-natured - you have to be, with that many children. PS I just read The Award and cried my eyes out! He suffered from heart trouble in recent years and had been diagnosed with leukemia recently. Danelle, who would write all night and take her time getting ready the next day called down from up stairs at 10am that she was not dressd and the John would love the picture and would be home later. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. Its powerfully rich and precious like the pictures on the back of my moms books and her dresses. While I thought John Traina would live forever, Home. W&P Porter bowl review: A container that makes office HOKA dropped a brand new version of their most popular shoe, Your Privacy Choices (Opt Out of Sale/Targeted Ads). He was married for 16 years to Dede Buchanan, with whom he had two sons. We fell in love with each other very quickly. My parents and his parents were friends and they would invite the Trainas to our summer home at Clear Lake. LorraineFebruary 24, 2011 After their separation, they hung out and fell in love quickly, just like her herself has countedThey had lunch on New Years 1981, he proposed to her on Valentines Day, and they were married []. I appreciated his positive spirit just. John and his wife looked like movie stars to me, and led a golden, elegant life. God bless all of you. He carried himself with a graceful presence on and off the field. Joseph John Traina Sr. Obituary It is with deep sorrow that we announce the death of Joseph John Traina Sr. of Lebanon, Pennsylvania, who passed away on June 27, 2022, at the age of 77, leaving to mourn family and friends. A cordial and affectionate greeting, Sorry Mrs. Steel, admired the little I had read about in his book on Nick, his patience cooperation with you, love makes all things possible. I am so sorry to hear of your ex-husbands passing. John and I went to Lowell Hight School together. Please accept my heartfelt though late condolences. 2:29 pm, Jennifer NixonAugust 29, 2013 God bless all of you. You are so lucky to have been a big part of his life. And we were married in June. 8:27 am, KimberlyFebruary 25, 2011 She married Claude-Eric Lazard in 1965, and divorced him in 1974 after several years of separation. I was 23, fresh out of college in Washington State, and working for American President Lines. They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel. Yet the words trailing the swift, sad demise of John Traina at age 79 on Feb. 1 are unanimous ones of admiration, loss and love - and not a hint of qualification from friends and family. Chronicle, Sunday February 6 just 5 days before his Celebration of Life at the S.F. He is also survived by two ex-wives Diane "Dede" Buchanan Wilsey, and Danielle Steel. He had the largest collection of Faberg cigarette boxes exhibited in museums around the world. makes me feel that I know him too. I am a very very big fan of yours and have been reading and collecting each book when it comes out. The morning that he died, he had breakfast with some of the children, and dressed carefully for a visit to the hospital to make sure that he was alright. He must have been an extra ordinary man and the way you described him She is dedicated to giving protection to her kids, and keeping them away from tabloids. Traina [], [] buenos amigos de Steele. Wonderful. He thoroughly enjoyed his kids, his friends, his homes, his travels, new adventures, exotic places (where I would have been terrified to go). Ironically, my first law firm, Low, Ball and Lynch moved there from the Alcoa Bldg. I just came across this blog of yours and it touched my heart. Steele frequently travels between San Francisco and Paris, and still uses a typewriter to write her manuscripts. A handsome, elegant man, impeccably groomed, with a radiant smile. Sincerely, You wrote about him so beautifully. Interested in everything, engaged in many endeavors, beloved by all, Traina had a passion for exotic travel, lived in Washington, D.C. in the 1960's, and loved his homes in San Francisco and the Napa Valley. He immediately struck up a conversation and we quickly discovered we shared a lot of interests including a love of the shipping industry. 11:00 am, Yoko YanariMay 19, 2011 Much of who I am revolves around his views of life and obligation to community. Holidays bring up a lot of memories. My sincere, heartfelt condolences to the Traina family.Bill McDermott. My heart goes out to you and yours. I would love to meet you one day and that would be a dream come true for me If you would like to make a comment, please fill out the form below. He is survived by three sons, Trevor, Todd and Maxx, and four daughters, Samantha, Victoria, Vanessa, and Zara, and was the father of the late Nick Traina. Tras su separacin, quedaron y se enamoraron rpidamente, como ella misma ha contado: almorzaron en Ao Nuevo de 1981, l le propuso matrimonio en San Valentn y se casaron en [], [] friends with Steele. 1:00 am, Samantha ClarkeApril 28, 2015 He was generous to his friends, hosting lavish summer barbecues for hundreds of guests on the Fourth of July at the Oakville home, and entertained many international jet-setters, including Italian film star Sophia Loren, who visited when her son, Carlo Ponti Jr., conducted the Russian National Orchestra when it performed in the Bay Area. He was born in 1945 in Norfolk,. He had moved back into my house during chemo, so he would be more comfortable and could be near to our children. He is also survived by a sister, Marisa Traina Hahn, three nephews and a niece. http://www.tj.org. He was a really nice guy, who will be missed by so many. 1:40 pm, Victor GentileApril 4, 2013 I am sure your family will find Mr. Trainas mark in many things they do. John Traina. Use Next and Previous buttons to navigate, In the days that follow the shuffling off of our mortal coil, rare is the person whose oral epitaph does not include an aside beginning with the word "but.". Twelve years later she had son Nick with Bill Toth. A memorial service will be held at The Maritime Museum, 900 Beach Street, San Francisco, 94109, on Friday, 11 February, at 2:00pm. 500 University Blvd. JOSEPH TRAINA OBITUARY. Shortly thereafter I took my nearly 100 year old Mother, Helen, for a visit in the Napa Valley. Mr. Traina then wed best-selling author Danielle Steel. John R Traina Sr of Tampa, Hillsborough County, Florida was born on July 24, 1919. Drew Altizer/SFWIRE Show More Show Less 2 of 6 From left Todd Traina, Katie Traina, Dede Wilsey, John Traina, Alexis Swanson, and Trevor Traina, attend . I can only imagine what a depth-charge this is to your family and children. He installed a TV in our van to watch video tapes, so the kids could watch a movie on the way to our house in Napa, which avoided the refrain of Are we there yet?. From left Todd Traina, Katie Traina, Dede Wilsey, John Traina, Alexis Swanson, and Trevor Traina, attend the San Francisco Opera Gala Friday evening, September 11, 2009. This year will mark the 25 anniversary oft mothers death. Giving to charity is a meaningful way to honor someone who has died. sorry to here of your ex-husbands passing i have just read your book about nick touch my heart and soul brought the book thinking it was one of your romances been signed off from work depresion didnt think i could read the book the pain you have been through broke my heart looked at the photos in the book before i readed it my thought was did he died on my birthday which is 9/20 you dont say the date but i have since found out was the 9/20/1997 i feel a real conection to the story you told please reply nicki. She was marrying someone else, John was alone and I was amazed that he invited me out. Many years ago you quoted a passage from the Bible that has always resonated with me, that God places the solitary in families. Now, more than ever, I know that these words you penned at the beginning of Family Album are particularly appropriate, because it seems that your own family story started in many ways when John entered your life. We would leave for the weekends with 9 kids, a mountain of suitcases, three young women to help us, 8 dogs, a pet pig (who was supposed never to grow bigger than 30 pounds and weighed 200 and was a most uncharming pet named Coco!!! You certainly have a way with words and you described him with such detail. I am so sorry for the loss of a very handsome man. I know you have strength to bear everything, but would like to share with you read the booklet WHEN A LOVED ONE DIES Jehovahs Witnesses. John A. Traina, Jr. (26 September 1931 - 1 February 2011) passed away last Tuesday in San Francisco. Box 470427, San Francisco, CA 94147. When we separated, I refused to have a war because I wanted our family to continue sharing holidays together. I met up with Todd in Hollywood after he was grown, and we went shopping and had a hilarious time together. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your children. I had the pleasure of working with John when I lived in Vancouver as his agent for both the Delta Steamship and Pearl Cruises lines. I didnt know that John had died, I am so sorry for your loss, How lucky you all were to have had such a wonderful time together. I took a photo of John with his two sons before we went to lunch in Yountville. John A. Traina, Jr. What a wonderful person you danielle few people are so grateful these days no you are so creative having such a husband beside you. One doesnt forget a good friend though. John Angelo Traina, 1932 - 2011 John Angelo Traina 1932 2011 California California John Angelo Traina was born in 1932, at birth place , California, to Giuseppe Angelo Traina . He was so good to me and sophomore year at SEA he asked me to join he and Anna at the Father Daughter dance, since my dad had passed years before. He came up with a creation which was sheer genius and before its time of computers, video machines and modern viewing devices. I am in my mid-40s and lost my mother 10 years ago. Me? feeling about ithe was asking me out??? Love you DS. "He was the man who everyone liked. I just completed reading His Bright Light about your son Nicky. I did not know Mr. Traina personally but knew of him as being one of the last Men of Elegance, a reminder of times long gone. Gaelle was sooo real! Debbie Banahan (John 5:28,29) Sophia Loren with John Traina at Bistro Don Giovanni in July 2004, when Sophias son Carlo Ponti was in Napa to conduct the Russian National Orchestra. And even then, he looked handsome and debonair and tolerated it well. Her first husband was steamship executive John Traina, whom she met in her hometown of. She was Bipolar Manic Depressed Like your son,I did everything I could to help her doctors,medicines putting her in rehab in hospitals and anything I could.Saddly on May 5 2010 I lost my baby she was only 18 years old to an accidental overdose.Now I am trying to go on without her it is not easy. The photo shows my middle brother Clay at age 2 sitting on our Collie dog Queenie, Jackie petting Quenie and Ricky (me) looking at the camera. I was looking for a list of your books so that I can purchase to read. Whitepages person search is the fastest way to find contact information online. There was a fire house, and a crystal bowl, and precious antiques, and John served as someone called a purser, and there was a painting of the month calendar club, and there were weddings, and admirers, and people from school, and some elder people who must have lived to be very wize, and book dedications, and high aspirations for the kids and family. And everyone loved everyone. I dont read or respond to emails much anymore because my computer went belly up, but I hope you will extend my best wishes to all. He was impeccable, perfect, beautiful, and he had a knack for spreading beauty around him. Newport News, Newport News City County . 12:37 pm, Linda MosbyMarch 23, 2011 John must have been a remarkable person and his passing leaves a large emptiness in the world. Let him rest in peace . One of his best friends, Charlie Crocker, said simply, "He was a dear friend of 60 years' standing who will be much missed.". As we left, John placed a hotel sticker on the compact, 'Now you'll always remember our lunch.' Recently the boys had it detailed. We both feel for your loss as we have both lost sons. 9:55 pm, Cristiana CruzJanuary 21, 2022 I am so sorry to read about your loss. If its too trivial I apologize but I read a few of the comments here and they left images of John that I really found interesting. John Traina sounded like an amazing person. Box 470427, San Francisco, 94147. ", "John was worldly, loved pranks and making me laugh. 5:35 pm, Michelle M.February 25, 2011 Please accept my deepest sympathy. While Steele tried everything to give proper medical assistance to her son, Traina died of morphine overdose at the age of 19. I was born in San Francisco and now live in Florida. The photo was left with the maid. Although you were no longer married, it is remarkable how you both remained close friends and beloved parents to all your children. She became a features reporter in 1999 and was assigned the society column in 2004. I said, 'OK. Looking back at those times, I now realize that the fun we had there, the marvelous parties the company gave for their employees, the opportunites to grow and advance had a lot to do with Mr. And he called me and invited me out. Much strength to you and your children in this sad time. But in spite of that, we remained good friends, and very close because of the children, and probably also just because we liked each other. We were married for 17 years, and have been separated and divorced for 16 years. Thank you again for all the happiness you have brought to us. Danielle Steele has a net worth of $375 million. I just found out about John Trainas passing, living in Arizona now. ", Denise Hale (longtime friend, international jet-setter): "A few years ago, John told me he was thrilled to be spending Thanksgiving with both his former wives and all their children. Sincerely,Carol kramer. In 1981 he married Steel, becoming father to her children, Beatrix Seidenberg and the late Nick Traina. Though it feels like a part of you is missing and like there is a hole in your heart now, time does heal. Perkins himself is an American entrepreneur, and one of the co-founders of Kleiner Perkins Caufield & Byers, a venture capital firm. MARIE TRAINA OBITUARY. The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards. Charlene Oakley. I find I am sorry for your loss of a loved one. Still to this day something will happen that I want to share and I will think Ill call Mom. Funeral services will be held privately. You and your family are definitely in my thoughts and prayers. "He was also an artistic person who lived life with great flair and great style. As the years went on I used old photos of the Traina family from Dads albums, enlarged and framed, as an excuse to visit John. The death of my son Nicky was their first big loss. Mr. Traina was born on. Ever! John Traina, philanthropist, vintner and world-renowned Faberg collector, died Tuesday in San Francisco of heart disease. My heart breaks for them, even 2+ years later. Although he resided primarily in San Francisco, he also had a home in Oakville, where he grew grapes and made red wine, often given as gifts. What a beautiful tribute to your former husband, but more importantly, a beautiful tribute to a fine human being. Maritime Museun, Friday February 11. Much love to you and your family. . Leave a sympathy message to the family in the guestbook on this memorial page of Joseph John Traina Sr. to show support. Wishing Peace for You and Your Family. Because when I tell the committee your plans, they're going to award you the Nobel Prize for Peace.' Our family suffered a devastating loss when my neice took her life at 34. W&P Porter bowl review: A container that makes office HOKA dropped a brand new version of their most popular shoe, Your Privacy Choices (Opt Out of Sale/Targeted Ads). John A. Traina, Jr. (26 September 1931 1 February 2011) passed away last Tuesday in San Francisco. I would love to read that one?? He had only praise for you and John as parents, and I was very glad to hear it. He was interested in conversations about new things and really seemed to enjoy the variety of life. West Silver Spring, MD JOHN TRAINA OBITUARY John H. Traina (Age 73) Passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, July 14, 2018. And we know several people who have lived years with leukemia, and have done well. He was so amazed by them and excited to watch their pursuits in life. He was truly blessed to have you as his mother. He died on November 19, 2010 at 75 years old. I am very proud to find that they will be entering the diplomatic corps. If youre in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist. it impossible to put one of your books down for too long without taking a little On a drive to my family's place in Newport during our courtship, we stopped for lunch at a Howard Johnson's. He was such a fun man and always, always, put his children first. time out to read more as the day goes on. You have funeral questions, we have answers. He was married then, and his wife was wearing a beautiful gown which had actually been a costume worn by Vivien Leigh as Scarlet OHara in the movie. Yoko, Hi Danielle this is quite a story I was curious & thought Id take a look at your different stories actually I was checking to see if you wrote a new story. Beloved father and grandfather, notable society figure, entrepreneur, civic leader and San Francisco legend, John Traina attended Grant School, Lowell High School, graduated from Stanford University '53, and served in the U.S. Army in the Pacific. Published by San Francisco Chronicle from Feb. 4 to Feb. 6, 2011. And we believed it too. We didnt have any clue that she was suffering so badly. P.S. She married John Traina in 1981 for the 4th time, with whom she has 5 children: Samantha, Victoria, Vanessa, Maxx and Zara. fortunate. 12:56 pm, afaf sherbinyFebruary 1, 2013 I am so sorry for his familywhat a terrible loss. To you and your family, my deepest sympathy and my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Since then, she has worked for the Sunday Style and Datebook sections, covering gala night openings and writing trend pieces. For those who knew Mr. Traina, his death came as a blow. Be well. Janet. We lost the head of our family last year. What a wonderful story or warmth, love, without animosity due to a divorce. What a wonderful person you are danielle . I am sorry for the loss of a very special person in your life and children. Our deepest sympathies during your time of loss John was elegant, possessed of impeccable manners and a very thoughtful friend. 7:10 am, afaf sherbinyFebruary 1, 2013 John and Fran were the sweetest, and more than neighbors. 6:37 am, Shawn DeCosteAugust 6, 2017 Your children are very blessed to have you and each other that they can lean on during this time. Nicholas John Steel "Nick" Traina Birth 1 May 1978 San Francisco, San Francisco County, California, USA Death 20 Sep 1997 (aged 19) Pleasant Hill, Contra Costa County, California, USA Burial Cypress Lawn Memorial Park Colma, San Mateo County, California, USA Show Map Plot But he was extremely sentimental, too. In 1965, in a match opposed by her father, Buchanan married John Traina, a shipping magnate and art collector. We had drinks together a time or twobut always just as good friends. The family requests that memorials be contributions to the California Historical Society, 678 Mission St., San Francisco, CA 94105, or the Nick Traina Foundation, P.O. He began the Pearl Cruises, the first Western cruise line to sail to China. The well-heeled man-about-town was a highly regarded figure. For some people, the best send-off is one that they would have loved to attendthemselves: a big party. Everyone is shocked, and all of us are stunned and saddened, but I also realize that this is probably the way he would want to go, quickly, simply, still looking handsome and feeling well until almost the last minute.